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I am a young black women with dreams to be great. I want to be on top of my own world and acquire what I want when I want it! With that said, yes I am spoiled, to the core and I let that get in my way sometimes but not always. I am a proud mother of a handsome 2 year old. I work two jobs to take care of mine and I go to church so yes I am a Christian. Sounds good so far. Okay so here is what I want from you. I want you to be my prince charming, my knight in shining armor. I want you to sweep me off my feet and love every inch of me. I am loving and caring when it comes to my man. I will be down for you when needed and there to lift your spirits on a glum day. I will be that strong black woman to stand behind you when it is your time to shine! I want to be there with you from beginning to end all I ask is that you be real and honest with me because I will be upfront with you. Love has a crazy way of revealing itself to you and when it finally hits you, you are doing things that most call crazy. So why is it hard to find? Or should I let it find me? I don't want to be disappointed or hurt but it happens. I want to share intimate moments with you without having intercourse. I want things that have to wait in that aspect of my life! But until then just know that I am here blooming into a beautiful Queen fit for her King!

Intimacy and Sex

Can we be intimate without having sex? I've asked this question before but no response! SO can we be intimate and share with each other tender and passionate moments without removing an article of clothing? Or must we get into the bare to show we care for each other? Is this new generation of "adults" all about sex or is there a way to have long lasting relationships without them being based on the physical. Yes attraction to the opposite is a must(for me) but are you attracted to his "rap" or his goals? What drives that person to live and breathe for another day? What about your dreams and aspirations and seeing your determination to strive for what you believe in? Help me understand! Am I alone out here? TALK TO ME BABIES I'M ALL EARS!

Swagger, what is it really?

Sooooo this is something that has been bothering me for a minute! Hmmm You say you have "swagger" but what is it really? It is confidence in oneself, is it what some may call "rap" or "game." You dress nice, talk with manners and decency, so is it swagger or is it becoming a man? When do you go from little boy to man, or does it ever grow. Your swagger is why you have so many women following you or is it something else? Is your swagger the total package of you or is it a little something that intices and ivites me or other women to try you and see what you have to offer? Could your swagger turn some away from you... hmmmmmmm just questions on my mind let me know!! Talk To ME cause She Got Her Own 2009 is speaking to youHolla!!!!