What defines a real man

Is it:

The amount of money he makes?
The size of his "peter" for those youngins?
The success he has in life?
His views on life topics?
His intimacy and I don't mean in the bed?
His mannerism?
His relationship with his mother?
His honesty?

Let's face it there a many factors out there that I think make up a real man.
But where if he doesn't have everything?
Let's be honest here! Would you wait for him, or would you say "forget it" and maybe miss out? Men do mature slower than women, trust me I have spoken to some and they are not ashamed to say it.

Now in a relationship would you work with your partner and teach them how you want to be loved?
For me I beleive when you are at the point in your life where you know what and who you want, then HELL YES!
We all know that life is a learning experience and every relationship, whether it is a friendship or lover, needs guidance from both halves.
Which brings us to the famous word... COMMUNICATION. Yes I believe this is the key to success in any relationship. No matter what, you should talk about how you feel on certain subjects. You can be the judge of when it is the right time to speak and how to say it. Once you overcome that you should be just fine!

Talk to me ladies and gentlemen

Dangerous

Mysterious in all ways

Captavating when looked upon

Intriguing when thought about

Venomous when messed with

I was your lethal injection

Your bee hive

I stung you with my love

It ran it's course though your body

day in and day out

then your body started to reject it

I was your drug, your high

You rose when called upon by me

Now you're gone

Should I find another to whip my appeal on

Or should I find you and make it true once again

Only time will tell......

Written Oct. 23, 2006

Do U Qualify

DO YOU QUALIFY
DO YOU QUALIFY TO BE THE BLACK MAN I NEED YOU TO BE
DO YOU QUALIFY TO HAVE EVERY ASPECT OF ME
BUT WOULD YOU WANT TO SPEND A LIFETIME WITH ME
WOULD YOU WANT TO SHARE YOUR INTERESTS AND FANTASYS
CAN YOU BE MY KNIGHT IN SHINING ARMOR
WOULD YOU BE HONORED TO BE WITH ME
WOULD YOU PUSH ALL OTHER CHICS ASIDE
WOULD YOU WANT TO SHARE YOUR PRIDE
MY BLACK BROTHA STRONG AND HANDSOME
WOULD YOU WANT ME OF WHO I AM
WOULD EVERYDAY UNFOLD NEW FEELINGS
WOULD YOU BE AFRAID TO TELL ME YOU LOVE ME
WOULD IT BE AN HONOR FOR ME TO HAVE YOUR CHILD
WOULD YOU WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME
CAN WE BE
CAN WE BE THAT COUPLE WE NEED TO BE
WOULD PEOPLE BE JEALOUS OF OUR RELATIONSHIP
YOU AND ME
CAN WE CHERISH EACH MOMENT LIKE IT WAS OUR LAST
CAN I BE THE GIRL OF YOUR DREAMS THE ONE TO ERASE YOUR PAST
CAN WE BE THAT INDESTRUCTIBLE COUPLE NOT LETTING ANYONE RUIN US
DO I QUALIFY
DO I QUALIFY TO SHOW YOU OFF
DO I QUALIFY TO BE THE WOMAN FOR YOU
DO I QUALIFY TO HAVE YOUR TRUST AND HONESTY
DO I QUALIFY TO BE YOUR LADY
DO I QUALIFY TO HAVE THE LOVE OF YOUR FAMILY
DO I QUALIFY TO BE IN YOUR LIFE
CAN I
CAN I LOVE YOU ONCE AND FOREVER MORE
CAN I LOVE EVERY ASPECT OF YOU EVEN YOUR FLAWS
CAN I PUT MY FEET IN YOUR SHOES AND UNDERSTAND WHERE YOU ARE
CAN I BE YOUR FRIEND WHEN YOU ARE IN NEED AND YOUR LOVER FOREVER
CAN I BE THE MOTHER OF YOUR CHILDREN THE NURISHER AND PROVIDER
CAN I BE THE ONE YOU COME HOME TO THE ONE TO COOK FOR YOU
CAN I BE THE ONE WHO MAKES YOUR HEART FLUTTER
CAN I BE THE REASON YOU SMILE

CAN I BE, CAN WE BE, DO I QUALIFY, DO YOU QUALIFY, DO WE QUALIFY

Oct. 16,2006

The Independent and Dependent Woman

Independent to me- basically you take care of you and yours, dependent- you expect someone to take care of you and yours! With that being said is there a difference of the independent/dependent woman in race today? Has it always been like this..

I chatted a little on FB about this with friends but I would like your opinions as well.... I had a couple of white women tell me that I need to find a rich man to marry so I can sit at home and be taken care of... hmmm really... this had me thinking... Do white mothers teach their daughters this, is this the mindset of young white girls and how long has it been this way? Also do black mother's teach their daugthers to think like this? Is there a difference in teaching between race?... Now growing up my mother always told me if there's something you want go get it and do not wait for anybody to get it for you.

I have also heard this from my Hispanic females as well..go and find a Hispanic man to take care of you... I don't understand this and maybe it's because I do not follow this concept or have this mindset!! Someone talk to me.. Speak on it!

Young, Fly and full of shit

Yeah I said it! Young, fly and full of shit! You have the newest J's out and a fresh outfit but you don't have a pot to piss in aka a lease in your name! You know the lyrics to all the songs on Lil Wayne's mixtape but you don't know how to solve an algebraic equation! You run L.A. as Natalie says on BGC but you are not smart enough to use a condom in bed. To some that is cool and acceptable to me baby you are FULL OF SHIT. That's an issue, but I see it so much in my city! WTF is going on? What happened to wanting to reach dreams or wanting a better future for yourself?? Someone help me understand please! Just something that was on my mind TTYL babes!~